5 WAYS TO MOTIVATE A MAN TO CLEAN THE HOUSE

Cleaning is traditionally a woman's business. And often it is disorder the reason for quarrels. Do you feel injustice here? We need to do something! Here are five simple tips how to gently motivate a man to clean up after himself.

Be an example

Trying to disaccustom the lover from the habit of pushing under the sofa twisted into "snails" socks? Do you always put things on your own? For sure with you, too, it happened: left on the chair clothes, unwashed in a hurry cup. Therefore, first of all, be an example of accuracy yourself, and in the second - you determine with what riots of the faithful you are ready to put up, and with which - no. Create a shortlist of categorically unacceptable habits and actions. That's them and you need to find motivators.

Talk to him

We all grew up in different families and the idea of ​​the order is different. What a complete chaos for you, for him - "not a little tidied up." In order not to sulk silently, like a mouse on cereals, for scattered things, talk frankly. Tell me, how important is his help and what actions you are waiting for in response. Unhappy we make it unjustified expectations. Bring to him the idea that according to the laws of the universe the elementary household options (to spread out their belongings in places, wash their dishes, etc.), everyone should do himself. Exceptions are small children, sick and infirm.

Make it without complaints

The main thing is not a scandal, but asking. Psychologists around the world are convinced that with normal people it works. And you have it not just normal, but the best! There are a lot of magic words: "Please", "My hero!", "What a fine fellow you are!", "Save me and your socks!". Always praise for help, and it will become a habit. Just do not stop in praise and affection. Relapse is possible.

Make him used to cleaning

Start with a simple one: complain about blunt knives, scum in the oven after his favorite meat in French. From time to time ask for help with minor domestic unrest. When the circle of his duties in the house will noticeably expand and become a burden, he will be armed with the latest innovations in technology. Just do not grab yourself for a new steam cleaner! Let him feel like a terminator in the fight against dirt. All men in the depths of their hearts are heroes. Do not take this from him.

Use bribery

It is better not to abuse this tool. It works well in particularly difficult situations, when cleaning with elements of repair is at stake. Only you know what your man dreams about, which means that there are no universal recommendations. Beer, striptease, massage, boxing, football, bachelor party, Counter-Strike, training on motivation, meat in Zanzibar ... Each heart has its own key. The main thing is that after receiving such a gift, he would be ready to turn mountains out of gratitude, for example, on the balcony.

For best results, we recommend that you apply all five recommendations. But most importantly - let him understand that a man capable of such deeds as cleaning is doomed to be the most beloved.